Give your attention to what you are wanting.
Withdraw your attention fromwhat you are not wanting --
and live in the freedom that is absolutely yours,
the freedom that no one, under any conditions, can ever take awayfrom you,
no matter how hard they try.
If their words can bother you, you are not free.
If you allow their words to bother you, it is the words thatbind you.
MORE OF YOU ARE AFFECTED BY THE WORDS OF OTHERS THAN YOU ARE BY YOUR OWN EXPERIENCE.
Abraham-Hicks